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I read in USA Today this week that "studies show that lonely people tend to react more intensely to life’s problems."
So I guess that’s why I get my feelings hurt when I receive emails like the one I got yesterday from my niece:
Thanks for my booties!
Will you send me grandma's email address?
That's the entire email. No hello, good-bye or kiss my ass.
A picture of said booties was included, which was a nice touch. However, said booties also came with a large quantity of diapers, an outfit, swimsuit and hat, pack of cute t-shirts (western sheriff style with "I’m in charge around here" type sayings) and a music CD.
I had to call and ask mom about the booties because I didn’t recognize/remember them. That’s because she picked them out.
People have been telling me that I shouldn’t let her bother me.
Yes, I know I react more intensely to things than other people do.
I figured that one out a long time ago.
Yes, I know I need to let it go.
Trust me, if I could control what I feel — if I could "let it go" — I wouldn’t need to lose 40 lbs.
kat said:
as one you'd like to belt across the room for telling you to not let it bother you…he he he…
You gotta start somewhere. Even if it's not blogging about that stuff, or snapping a rubber band on your wrist whenever you catch yourself complaining. Just find what works for you and consistently work your way toward your goal and expect substantial failure as you retrain yourself. Like anything, the bottom line is how badly do you want it.
If I can do it, pretty much anyone can. You know a portion of what I've dealt with. And I still have to be told to "shut up shut up". 😀
And – prayers for your lovely mom. please keep us posted.